"Etiquette is not about being stiff,
​but about being steady”
              — Sheïda Wever 
Welcome to my world where it's all about you!
Every human being makes mistakes,
​but it's the way you deal with them turns you into the human being you are.

Be always the best version of yourself.

Everyone has two sides. Like a coin. Both sides must be polished to have value.

In the service industry you should treat your guests
​the same you would expect to be treated.
My 3 B's of Success:
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Be the professional you would hire for your own company. 

Be the Butler you would trust your estate to.

​Be the person you would live, sleep and spent your whole life with.

Celebrate with Class

A Brief Three-Hours or One-day
Hands-On-interactive-training session for those professionals that don’t have time to waste!
​But are willing to invest in themselves! ​
Christmas and New Year are around the corner. Everybody is getting ready to enjoy and make others enjoy as well? 

Or Ups... John Doe, director of sales is still infamous for drinking the wine of the guest seated next to him at the company Christmas dinner last year? 

These blunders can be easily avoided.

This is your opportunity to register for an exciting interactive hands-on tutorial about dining, dress code and cocktail manners. This tutorial will enable you to master the basic important skills and polish your business and social cocktail manners. 
You can’t buy Class!
If you are fortunate wealthy does not mean you have Class!
If you are less fortunate does not mean you can’t have Class!  Having a degree does not mean you have Class! Having Class is not measured by what you possess, or by how smart you are, or by your training and expertise,
​but by how well you handle yourself and others. 
Having Good Manners is having Class! 

Special reduced fee for Companies or individuals booking for more than 6 participants.

Teen Etiquette Camp

Between Teen & Adult

Having GOOD manners
​is being Cool!

A Fun and Interactive 1-day-workshop for teens and parents.
A confidence building 5-days training-workshop
for young men and women, ages 12-17,
​to get them ready ​for their future. 
The aim of the workshop is to improve better understanding between adolescents and parents 
by ​training them ​on the same wavelength. ​
Through role play and fun exercises
​they learn and improve their social skills.
Some of the topics we will be discussing during interactive sessions will be:
​Social Etiquette, Table manners, dress code, self confidence, body language, organisational skills, personal Image & hygiene, Hair & Make-up, personal presentation skills, interpersonal communications skills and Social Media  Etiquette ​
Note: Above training programs will be presented till next summer of 2026.
We offer special reduced Family & Friends group fee. 

Etiquette Booster Camp

One-day interactive workshop programs to Boost Social Skills.


​Teen Etiquette Booster Camp
​
This Summer we have a special summer workshop for Teens between the ages of
12- 17 years. The workshop is a 1-day program from 10 am to 8 pm.

The topics we will be discussing during this interactive session will be:
​Social Etiquette
Table manners
Dress code
Self confidence
Body language 
Organisational skills
Personal Image & hygiene
Hair & Make-up, and
Social Media  Etiquette 

​Family & Friends Etiquette Booster Camp
​
This program is designed for groups of family and friends who want to boost their social skills in a fun and interactive way. During this 4-hour workshop, participants aged 18 to 88 will enjoy a dynamic session that combines learning, laughter,
and a 3-course dining tutorial to practice real-life social interaction.
Fee: €150 per person
Includes: training facility, handouts/summary, coffee breaks,
​and a 3-course dining tutorial.
​

Celebrating this summer in beautiful Lemmer.
Our New location in Lemmer where we will be having our summer workshops will be announced soon!  Lemmer is a town in the municipality of De Fryske Marren, in the Dutch province of Friesland. Lemmer lies adjacent to the IJsselmeer and the Frisian Lakes and is one of Friesland's best-known surface water sports locations. It is a small and medieval town that you should visit in The Netherlands.
There are plenty of things to do in Lemmer and you can easily spend one day in one of the best destinations in Friesland.
The town of Lemmer is a beach town in the province of Friesland, The Netherlands, and most famous for housing
​one of the Unesco World Heritage Sites in The Netherlands, the Wouda pumping station.​ 

Welcome to the wonderful
Queendom of Shoewel

BIOGRAPHY

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"Empowering the life of others​ ​brings real meaning to my own" 
                — Sheïda Wever 
 
Sheïda Wever is since 2002 certified as International Protocol and Corporate Etiquette Consultant, Trainer and Coach. Sheïda is proud to be owner of Wever Etiquette & Manners the first Protocol & Etiquette Institute in her native country Curaçao.  She is also the first representative in Europe and the Caribbean for the Protocol School of Washington.

The Protocol School of Washington is the most prestigious protocol and etiquette institute worldwide for almost 30 years. Sheïda has given seminars, training and personal coaching to government officials, entrepreneurs and  professionals in demanding service industries World Wide. “Many professionals don’t focus on what really matters like to develop their soft skills. And it is this proficiency that will distinguish them from other professionals.” 

Sheïda has a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Administration with a specialisation in Tourism Management and is a professional TV Producer. She is also a Certified Special Events Professional. She assisted The Consul of The Netherlands in Puerto Rico by hosting and coordinating different events for high diplomatic officials of both The Netherlands and Puerto Rico. She worked almost 10 years as Public Relations Officer for the Government Oil Company of Curacao (Curoil). As a former Miss Curacao she represented her Country at the Miss Universe Beauty Pageant in 1985.

As national director and franchise holder of the Miss Universe and Miss World pageant, for almost 20 years, she trained participants and winners of beauty pageants, focusing on their presentation skills, personal appearance, image and their soft skills. 

As Executive Director and Senior Etiquette & Protocol Instructor for an International Butler Academy she designed the curriculum for Etiquette & Protocol and Events Planning & Coordination for the Academy.

​She designed her own Training Method which she applies when training professionals for private households, Hotel, Resorts and Yachts. In 2015 she developed a complete curriculum for the Monaco Yacht Club in order for them to setup their own Yacht Crew training Academy. In addition she was the official trainer for Protocol and Etiquette for the Academy.

It would be a pleasure working with you.